The rate at which marriages collapse now is assuming a social status symbol in our society. In no-time, people will be throwing divorce parties and invite friends and well-wishers to celebrate their divorce anniversaries; they will choose aso-ebi, hire a hall and popular musicians & what have you.
Even a question like "So when are u getting divorced?" will become commonplace. If u know u can't handle the weight & pressures of marriage, please remain single. If u don't know what marriage is all about, please remain single until u do.
If u are getting married because of the things u desire or hope to gain from the other person please remain single. If u know u can't be faithful, remain single. If u can't endure insults from one another, please remain single. If u can't forgive one another's wrongs, please remain single.
If u can't place your spouse above every other human being, please remain single! Don't get married out of desperation,or "All my friends are getting married" is d most foolish reason to get married! If u desire a successful home, but your choice of friends are forces not to reckon with, think again. Be very mindful of where you go for advices, Many would give, but not many mean well!
Guys, if u know u can't put your wife ahead of your ego, please remain single till you're mature. Your wife is your priority and EVERYTHING else including u,comes last. You are the teacher, the guide, the bodyguard, the role model...u are not a deity or God. So do not expect to be worshiped. You need respect, earn it by being responsible!
Ladies, if u know you can't be submissive please don't go into marriage so you're not turned to a punch bag! If u know u can't stand being corrected, please remain single. Mr/Mrs I know it all!!! Ladies check your domestic scorecard, if your score is zero, please stay in your parents' house!
Ladies and gentlemen, marriage isn't and won't be a bed of roses.
Even a question like "So when are u getting divorced?" will become commonplace. If u know u can't handle the weight & pressures of marriage, please remain single. If u don't know what marriage is all about, please remain single until u do.
If u are getting married because of the things u desire or hope to gain from the other person please remain single. If u know u can't be faithful, remain single. If u can't endure insults from one another, please remain single. If u can't forgive one another's wrongs, please remain single.
If u can't place your spouse above every other human being, please remain single! Don't get married out of desperation,or "All my friends are getting married" is d most foolish reason to get married! If u desire a successful home, but your choice of friends are forces not to reckon with, think again. Be very mindful of where you go for advices, Many would give, but not many mean well!
Guys, if u know u can't put your wife ahead of your ego, please remain single till you're mature. Your wife is your priority and EVERYTHING else including u,comes last. You are the teacher, the guide, the bodyguard, the role model...u are not a deity or God. So do not expect to be worshiped. You need respect, earn it by being responsible!
Ladies, if u know you can't be submissive please don't go into marriage so you're not turned to a punch bag! If u know u can't stand being corrected, please remain single. Mr/Mrs I know it all!!! Ladies check your domestic scorecard, if your score is zero, please stay in your parents' house!
Ladies and gentlemen, marriage isn't and won't be a bed of roses.
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